Translation Help Needed

Can someone help translate this phrase??

when said, it sounds like…
“elun martek” or “illun martek” or “ila martek”.

TY

ila martek ==== except your wife, other than your wife, not including your wife.

What would it mean if a girl said, “elon martek” ?

I don’t know about that spelling but thats what it sounds like when said out loud. Could be
elun martek.