translating on visiting a friend

A woman is going to visit her “friend” in another city.

She first asks him to come visit her in her home city. Since she is already going to visit him he replies:

daba enji mahboubi

He is talking about some nice things they do together like walking on the beach and he says:

c’est devenu el mokadima à chaque rencontre.

Could I get a translation for daba enji mahboubi and el mokadima?

Merci en avance,

daba nji mahboubi

now you’re coming soon sweetheart… is this correct?

i am coming now, not you are coming now