Thank you very much…
No i know he told me it is not forbidden, but for him personnaly it is very important that he and his live partner have the same religion. I respect that. But it’s also hard for me, as i feel that whatever i will do, it will never be good enough, as long i’m not moslim, while it’s not my fault i was never brought up in that religion. And if we get through everything, and we are very happy, and it is still a problem for him, i will concider to become moslime, but for me that’s still far away… :hm: But you hear so many times that there are mixed couples, but the guy or girl will never get serious cause at the end he/she’ll only marry in her religion or culture…
So i guess i just have to trust him, make the best of it, and in the meantime learn as much as possible.
I eat with him, with my hands, no meat that’s not prepared the right way, i told him if i was ever to meet is parents, i won’t mind waring a scarf, cause i don’t want to offend them… But as i understand, girlfriend never get to see the parents.
I have to learn and ajust so much now, as you say i already guessed that living together wasn’t an option. And i’m also devoreced and have a child, you can imagen !! I’m used of spending the weekend with the inlaws, even when i was just dating… :^^:
I am meeting his sister soon, he arranged that, so i guess that’s a start.
But we’ll see, i hope i get some good tips here how to behave ! :^^:
Is there anything that is really important for his culture/ religian, that i can suprice him with, of course i could ask him, but then it wouldn’t be a suprice… Food, presents, poemes, anything would do ! :hap:
Thanks a lot !