moroccan weddings

madmartigan72
Did you just call me sa7bi? hhhh
call me khti instead :wink:

@mad
you talked like continuing a previous post, so I couldn’t really follow :smiley:
and then you spoke in Darija, hat if the other mad… I mean madmartigan72 didn’t understand Darija!

madmartigan72
Hold on there till I gather my breathe and answer your question

a note for people who are new around (like madmartigan72) and anyone reading: MADRIDISTA is NOT my husband

phew!

loooll doudi 7eydilo chek … but take it easy we dont want him to divorce her loooll

I meant things that I have to do or not to do to avoid hurting my wife’s sensibility :^^:

[quote=madmartigan72]Chuckran sa7bi,

We will celebrate the l3id kbir here in Italy, we already seem to have found the sheep and who is going to make it in parts after the islamic ritual.

And yes, answering to a previous question, I converted to Islam more than a year ago :slight_smile:

You both gave me a clear idea of what is expected mainly from me.

And if I undrstood well, [color=#FC0C02][large]money[/large][/color] is the most important thing! :dance:

Now, what I wish to know is a “model” of good attitude of a married maroccan husband.

I know it is roughly broad as request, but I would like to understand which mistakes I have not to do and what could hurt her sensibility.
To do this you have to be familiar with the occidental mentality and recognize the differences between my original culture and yours; I tell this to you because you can surely avoid to say me things which are totally elementar and clear for you but for me :unsure:

marra akhra chuckran bzaf! :^^:[/quote]
See, we completely misunderstood you, and we thought you were asking about the wedding only, since you asked your question here, in the weddings’ topic.
sorry for making it sound like money is all what matters… it’s not… really, it’s not
you can’t just bring in a gift while visiting and act mean, and be impolite

1- Well listen, the Moroccan men can be a real pain and not help with house chores, nor even bring a glass of water for themselves from the kitchen. They would just sit in front of TV while the poor woman cooks, cleans, watches over the kids. I am afraid even new generations of men can be like that. But since the new generations of Moroccan women are educated and work, they don’t like that anymore. The problem is that even when in a couple both the man and woman are working, it’s traditionally known that it’s the house is the woman’s responsibility…
Anyways, since you’re not Moroccan, then your wife will expect you to act different regarding this for example.

2- Like Mad say, it’s not nice when you criticize the food not caring that the poor woman put too much effort into it, and was doing her best to feed you. Good thing, you’re probably not familiar with Moroccan food, so your wife can make mistakes and you will still not realize if the food is good or not hhhh

3- opposite-gender relationships… i don’t know how it is in Italy… but since you’re a Muslim, you should already be aware of this

That’s from the top of my mind now

Great :slight_smile:

I got all the points, I was just joking about the money :slight_smile:

chukran!

i agree with doudi … when the man and woman are both workin … the man must help , its impolite to stay watchin TV the whole day while the woman is workin as a 7mar :S
but i know women ( with a graduation too ) who prefered to work at home and care about their children … in this case the man can watch football and news wuahahhahahahahha … ofcourse from time to time its good to buy her some gold as i said , they forget everything when they c gold :smiley:

mabroukkk za3ma!! have a blessed marriage, and gd luck with the moroccan transformation, nchallah everything will be fine

looool i congratulated the wrong user, sm7ou liya :oops: i meant madmartigan

i know u were high hhhhh

na not all the time we get excited when seeing sliver too haha

hahahahhahahaha true true :stuck_out_tongue:

na actually the secret to a womans heart is…wait 4 it…CHOCOLATE!! haha Its a girls best friend :wink:

hahaha… I really don’t like any gold or silver things… So man has to think about smth another for me :stuck_out_tongue:

“Toblerone” :gb:

But really Russian chocolate is the best !!! :okay:

Ferrero Rochers r the best!!! lol

noooo :blink: lol

omg u dnt like em?? :blink:

I agreeee :okay: and Côte d’or
Switzerland chocolate & Belgium ihas the best chocolate in the world

sorry touta but ive never heard about d russian chocolate … i agree with mini and tafi … ferrero rochers is the best :wink:

your Ferrero Rocher is not a chokolate like it should be… it’s sweets… :stuck_out_tongue:
yes very delicious but I m sure that chocolate it’s smth pure without any wafers and so on… :slight_smile: